Wednesday, August 3, 2011

The Chicken or The Egg

The Chicken or the Egg.

This is a pms post. Be Warned.

What came first...
My urge to eat everything is sight because I KNOW my monthly is coming or the urge to eat everything in sight because I genuinely feel starved out on my monthly?

I know it's coming because I get crazy emotional.
Case in point, last night I wanted pasta. I never eat pasta, because it just isn't worth it, nutritionally. However, I just was really feeling it last night. I have had a headache for 2 days, felt run down and wanted some friggin carbs. With olive oil. And sun-dried tomatoes. Stat.

Here is where things got strange!
I couldn't open the tomato jar. I REALLY wanted that jar to open. On the verge of tears, I decided to hell with it. I will break it open.
This sounded totally logical to me at this point, so I walked outside, and...
promptly threw the bottle on the ground.

Needless to say, It opened!!

I calmly took the wreckage inside, put it in a bowl and picked out the glass. Then I went outside and swept up.

As I was eating my rage infused delicious pasta, it occurred to me that perhaps something wasn't quite right here. I'm feeling needy, hopeless and HUNGRY. What's the date...
Oh. Beginning of the month. In approx. 5 days, AF arrives.
That explains that!

But I am not entirely sure there isn't some shift that occurs when I realize it's time for Aunt Flow. After my pasta cravings were handled, I still grazed. Strawberries. M&M's. Lemonade/Tea concoction.

Did I need to? Or did I do it because that's what I am "supposed" to do while PMS'ing? I know the emotional distress I go through at this time is legit and have learned ways to deal with it. Exercise, long hot baths, journaling, reading, lying in silence, meditation when I can muster up the resolve that takes!
However, I have never, not once, tried to understand or conquer my food issues during this time.

Maybe now is a good time.
I have already given in to sugar cravings at breakfast with a piece of coffee cake, which made me really think about all of this. Wouldn't toast with some strawberries have done the same for me? Am I eating the things I choose because I want it, because I am tired and want the boost or am I using PMS as a subconscious excuse to gorge?
It's a nasty cycle. I lose a few pounds, and gain them back at PMS time. I never really get ahead. It's not helping the hopelessness feelings!!
So.. For the next week, whether it's here or in a journal or even in a note on my phone, I will write/type down what I am feeling at my meals, why I want what I want and if there is an alternative and most of all.. Avoid salt!! And perhaps start putting my tomatoes into tupperware after I buy them.

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